Helping Successful Singles Get Wise About Love

I help successful singles, over forty, who are tired of being stuck in unfulfilling relationships to find true committed love that lasts. I did it and so can you!


 Is there a gap between where you are now and where you want to be with your love life?

  • Are you looking for committed love that lasts?
  • Are you successful in your career or business but not in your love life?
  • Are you stuck in a relationship that’s not meeting your needs and wondering “Should I stay or should I go?”
  • Would you like to learn how to avoid being Catfished when you’re dating online?
  • Would you like to explore alternatives to online dating?
  • Are you having trouble letting go of a past relationship?
  • Are you tired of making the same relationship mistakes over and over?
  • Are you lacking the people skills necessary to meet someone or have a successful love relationship?

If you answered yes to any of the above, singles relationship coaching can help!

Whether you’re looking for marriage or your life partner, I can help you:

  • Discover who you are and what you want and need to be happy and fulfilled in your love relationship.
  • Become a conscious dater
  • Learn how to look for red flags and make good relationship choices
  • Learn the ins and outs of online dating
  • Build confidence, eliminate fears and become a networking star
  • Become the person who can attract Mr. or Mrs. Right
  • Build people skills, through increased Emotional Intelligence (EQ), for greater success in your love relationship
  • Create a specific plan and strategy and take action to achieve your relationship  goals

How I Help My Clients


Should you decide to begin a coaching relationship with me, I will send you a questionnaire to complete before our first session to provide me with additional information. I will also send you a Relationship Readiness Assessment. This allows us to maximize the time in our initial coaching session. The initial session lays the foundation for our coaching partnership. In addition to discussing your agenda, we will discuss the responsibilities of me as the coach and you as the client, “what is” and “what isn’t” being offered, and the specific parameters of the coaching relationship. As your coach, I will partner with you to define and achieve your goals. During each session the agenda will be yours. Sometimes you might start with one thing and shift to something entirely different – it’s up to you!  Typically we will explore your concerns, identify your goals, then develop an action plan for you to achieve your desired results. In addition to celebrating your successes with you, I will hold you accountable for your “Action Items”, which we will determine together. The purpose of the “Action Items” is to move you forward toward your goals. These sessions are about you, where you are in the moment and where you would like to be. Sessions last between 45 minutes to one hour.  I have found that some people finish in 45 minutes, but some require an hour. It will be your preference each session. The duration of the coaching relationship is up to you, but I highly recommend that you make a mental commitment to yourself for at least 3 months of coaching, as meaningful life-changing progress doesn’t always happen overnight. There’s no way to predict how long it will take for anyone to reach their coaching goals. As the client you are responsible for taking action towards your desired results. When and if you achieve your goals is up to you. The International Coach Federation (ICF) defines coaching as “partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential”. As an ICF Professional Coach, I promise to practice the ICF Professional Core Competencies and pledge accountability to the ICF Code of Ethics.  As your coach I will  partner with you to help you discover your own answers to create the life you want and find the love you want, by giving you the tools, support, and accountability to reach your true potential to achieve your goals.   I would love to be your coach! Request your Find Committed Love that Lasts Strategy Session now.

Success Stories

Whenever something felt good in my love life, my “feel good police” would show up and take it away. This was not allowing me to fully commit to a woman. Working with Pam as my coach, I was able to let go of them. She also helped me to improve my emotional intelligence. We went through a series of exercises. It wasn’t easy. Now, I’m in a lasting loving relationship – my reward for the hard work! Thank you Pam. ~ P.M., California

After having success with Pam as my career coach, I returned to her for help with my love life. I was frustrated in a relationship that wasn’t meeting my needs. Pam worked with me to discover what I needed in a relationship, and to clarify my values. She provided a safe place for me to laugh, cry, and develop the confidence and skills to set boundaries, and have honest open communication with the man I love. I am now happy and living my dream with the love of my life.” ~ Barbara Wiley, Auburn, CA

Complimentary Find Committed Love that Lasts Strategy Session

Are you ready to find the love relationship you’ve always dreamed of? During this powerful complimentary 30 minute session I will help you:

  • Get clear about the type of love relationship you really want.
  • Find out what’s holding you back from finding the love you deserve (even if you’re currently stuck and trying to decide “Should I stay or should I go?”).
  • Create an action plan to take the first step to turn your dream of finding love that lasts into reality.

Each month, I give away two of these sessions. If you’re ready to take action and want support to find the love you want, please answer the questions to the right. I’ll get back to your within 48 hours and let you know if you’re one of the two.  

About Coach Pam

I love helping singles, over forty, turn their dream of finding a fulfilling committed love relationship that lasts into reality. My best friend introduced me to my first husband when we were in college. When I married him I didn’t know who I was, what I wanted or needed to be happy and fulfilled in a marriage, or how to have open honest communication. In addition, I married a man who didn’t share my values. That was a recipe for disaster! Committed love, doesn’t work unless you’re with the right partner. It was nine years before I successfully remarried. During those difficult years, I learned a lot about myself and relationships in general. Today, I’m happily married. I’m passionate about sharing what I’ve learned on my journey and helping others find fulfilling committed love relationships, while utilizing best practices from my extensive coach training. I’m a Certified Professional Coach through iPEC, where I was trained as a life and business coach, and an ICF (International Coach Federation) credentialed coach, who follows a strict code of ethics, standards and practices. I was trained as a Singles Relationship Coach at RCI (Relationship Coaching Institute). As a lifetime member of RCI, I’m authorized to use their wildly successful proprietary Conscious Dating, Self-Discovery and Readiness Program. This is an extra tool I incorporate into my coaching to help you make good relationship choices. After years as a Career/Leadership/Public Speaking Coach, who provided singles relationship coaching to those who requested it, I decided to focus my practice on helping singles find love! My husband and I live in a birders paradise on acreage in the beautiful foothills of the Sierra Nevada mountains in California. He supports me in my passion for photographing birds and other wildlife on our property, and I support him in his passion for building classic hot rods.

Request your Committed Love Strategy Session now.

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